Have you ever found yourself scrolling through social media, seeing someone else’s Instagram post or TikTok, and feeling a twinge of irritation or jealousy? It’s something we all experience from time to time. But what if I told you that those feelings of envy or longing could actually be a sign from your intuition, inviting you to explore your own desires and take action in your life?

In this article, learn why jealousy is actually a huge gift and sign to pay attention to. Identify the FASTEST way to get out of wishfulness and into taking action… AND how to make these moments SERVE you and the future you want to create!

P.S. Prefer to listen? Check out Episode 120 of the Bright Life Podcast: DOING: The Way out of Wishfulness.

3 Ways to Move from Jealousy to Action

When we see someone else sharing something they have or experience, it often sparks a reaction within us. We might think, “I wish I had that too,” or “Must be nice for them.” But instead of dismissing these feelings, get curious and excited. This trigger might be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

Here are three ways to move from wishfulness to taking action.

Seek the Hidden Message

When you experience that triggered feeling, take a moment to ask yourself, “What is it about this post that resonates with me?” Perhaps it’s a desire for more travel, freedom, or flexibility in your life. Whatever it may be, use this as a clue to what you truly want.

Shift from Envy to Empowerment

Once you’ve identified your underlying desire, don’t dwell on comparison or jealousy. Instead, focus on taking one small action step toward that dream. It could be as simple as researching flights for your dream destination, exploring online courses to build a new skill, or reallocating your budget to save for your goals. Once YOU embark on your own journey of travel, change, or transformation, it’s easier to feel excited about the future YOU are creating instead of frustrated watching someone else.

Dream Through Others

As you shift your mindset, remember that Instagram and other social media platforms are highlight reels. People share what they want the world to see. Instead of letting this make you feel inferior, make it work FOR you!

I often use social media as my vision board, and you can too. Follow inspiring individuals who are on paths similar to what you desire. Cheer them on, and see yourself as part of that journey as well. Of course, it’s not the WHOLE picture and probably never will be. But see it as INSPIRATION for you. Use it to dream bigger and brighter, and leave the rest.

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The next time you find yourself feeling triggered by someone else’s post, remember that it could be your intuition nudging you toward your own desires. Embrace the opportunity to explore your dreams, shift from comparison to empowerment, and take one small step at a time. Your journey is uniquely yours, and by embracing it wholeheartedly, you’ll unlock the hidden gifts that lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

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